We are all a little bit racist, aren’t we?.
Our packaging
may be different but our core, unfortunately is the same.
Perhaps we shouldn’t
try to be 100% not racist.
Definitely
not a 100% racist, but at least the level of racist that is acceptable.
We live in
a multi ethnicity environment.
We may live
in the same country, but we grew up differently.
The same way
we grew up in the same family but there will definitely be a little bias
amongst the way parents treated us. If you are the only child, you are one
lucky madafaka.
Parents are
supposed to not pick their favourite.
Why??,
because that is the right thing to do.
The heart
wants what it wants. The age old conflict between the matters of the heart and
matters of the mind.
It is just
frowned upon to admit it, to be 100% truthful.
What is the
ultimate truth?? Being righteous? Being right? Or being right according to what
is expected by the religion, the society, or the country you live in?
It is very
subjective. You can’t be right all the time. Never wrong as well at all times.
Maybe it is
common sense or empathy.
When your eldest
sibling scores straight A’s and get a Desktop, the youngest sibling scores an A
in 1 subject and get a remote controlled car and you score straight A’s and get
shit in return…
well not
shit just conveniently being told that the other siblings asked for the things
they wanted while you did not that is just some shit talk….
Arent you
supposed to be fair to all your children?. There will be some bias here and
there. Intentional or not.
Same thing
in this country. Segregation, privileges, thesre things are not fun to talk to.
Definitely not fun to experience. It is what it is.
The game is
not always fair. You are dealt with your cards and you have to play your game
no matter what.
If you cant
win, try to not be the last player. If you lose, minimize your damages.
Come on, we
all have experienced it people judge you by your skin colour, what you wear and
your appearance.
This has
been normalized. If you are buff, you get the attention. If you are handsome,
people want to be your friend.
Come dating
apps. If you are a certain race, people think you are dirty and smelly. If you
are the other, it is assumed you don’t bathe and wash your ass. If you are another,
you fuck raw and are possibly hiv positive.
Is it
really wrong to state the race you like in your dating app?
Is it
frowned upon?
Is it
morally wrong?
Wouldn’t it
be a lot better to mention it and save both parties’ time, at the risk of
coming off as an asshole or is it just a good thing to do?
I am not
sure of what is right or wrong.
Personally
I don’t like to state the race or religion I like to date, as much as I don’t like
to be rejected based on my ethnicity.
At the same
time, like I said, the heart wants what it wants. I do have preference.
Everybody
does.
I choose
not to explicitly put it in my profile.
Then there
are those who outwardly reject people based on their ethnicity but showers them
with compliments like: You are the most good looking xxx (ethnic) I have seen.
How are you so fair / smooth?.
So, should
I give you a medal because you generally hate my kind but you make exception
for me?
Thank you
for your compliments but you are not worth my time and attention.
What makes
you think you could judge others and at the same time give backhanded
compliments because then, I would respond to you.
Its like…Ugghhh
ur so ugly but I’ll fuck you because no one else if fucking me.
Newsflash:
No one wants you because you are a racist pig. No offense to pigs.
At the end
of the day, try not to be a pig. Just take things easy and go with the flow.
