We are all a little bit racist arent we?

 We are all a little bit racist, aren’t we?.

Our packaging may be different but our core, unfortunately is the same.

Perhaps we shouldn’t try to be 100% not racist.

Definitely not a 100% racist, but at least the level of racist that is acceptable.

We live in a multi ethnicity environment.

We may live in the same country, but we grew up differently.

The same way we grew up in the same family but there will definitely be a little bias amongst the way parents treated us. If you are the only child, you are one lucky madafaka.

Parents are supposed to not pick their favourite.

Why??, because that is the right thing to do.

The heart wants what it wants. The age old conflict between the matters of the heart and matters of the mind.

It is just frowned upon to admit it, to be 100% truthful.

What is the ultimate truth?? Being righteous? Being right? Or being right according to what is expected by the religion, the society, or the country you live in?

It is very subjective. You can’t be right all the time. Never wrong as well at all times.

Maybe it is common sense or empathy.

When your eldest sibling scores straight A’s and get a Desktop, the youngest sibling scores an A in 1 subject and get a remote controlled car and you score straight A’s and get shit in return…

well not shit just conveniently being told that the other siblings asked for the things they wanted while you did not that is just some shit talk….

Arent you supposed to be fair to all your children?. There will be some bias here and there. Intentional or not.

Same thing in this country. Segregation, privileges, thesre things are not fun to talk to. Definitely not fun to experience. It is what it is.

The game is not always fair. You are dealt with your cards and you have to play your game no matter what.

If you cant win, try to not be the last player. If you lose, minimize your damages.

Come on, we all have experienced it people judge you by your skin colour, what you wear and your appearance.

This has been normalized. If you are buff, you get the attention. If you are handsome, people want to be your friend.

Come dating apps. If you are a certain race, people think you are dirty and smelly. If you are the other, it is assumed you don’t bathe and wash your ass. If you are another, you fuck raw and are possibly hiv positive.

Is it really wrong to state the race you like in your dating app?

Is it frowned upon?

Is it morally wrong?

Wouldn’t it be a lot better to mention it and save both parties’ time, at the risk of coming off as an asshole or is it just a good thing to do?

I am not sure of what is right or wrong.

Personally I don’t like to state the race or religion I like to date, as much as I don’t like to be rejected based on my ethnicity.

At the same time, like I said, the heart wants what it wants. I do have preference.

Everybody does.

I choose not to explicitly put it in my profile.

Then there are those who outwardly reject people based on their ethnicity but showers them with compliments like: You are the most good looking xxx (ethnic) I have seen. How are you so fair / smooth?.

So, should I give you a medal because you generally hate my kind but you make exception for me?

Thank you for your compliments but you are not worth my time and attention.

What makes you think you could judge others and at the same time give backhanded compliments because then, I would respond to you.

Its like…Ugghhh ur so ugly but I’ll fuck you because no one else if fucking me.

Newsflash: No one wants you because you are a racist pig. No offense to pigs.

At the end of the day, try not to be a pig. Just take things easy and go with the flow.