Dont Take a Back Seat in Relationship and Tell Yourself: If Only That Didnt Happen, I Would Have Done So Many Things Differently.

a wise guy once told me: do as what your heart desires. as long as u think u are doing what u  think is right for yourself do it if it makes you happy.

the thing is, what is right for one man might not be right for another.. its a subjective statement but it makes a lot of sense.

from the simplest of things to more serious ones ranging from sexual preference, food, accommodation, trnasportation..and ultimately taking someone's life..

true we all know its wrong ethically and morally to take someone's life and that we are not supposed to try playing god...think again.

if theres a person who harms your loved one when they are just minding their own business would it be so wrong to inflict some pain back to them?

for an instance: you are walking down the street, minding your own business with your mom or daughter (ermmm why would someone with a daughter be reading this BLOG??!!) and out of nowhere this guy comes riding on the bike to snatch the chain, handbag or bracelet by slashing / strangling / hitting them..would it be so wrong to want to run him over with your car...

how about teachers who abuse children? im not talking about children who come from broken families where there have obvious phychological issues but children who have honestly forgotten to bring their book to school because they were up all night doing the homework in the middle of a morning rush and the teacher slaps him because she thought the child is lying..would it be so wrong to SLAP the teacher back to remind her that she too was once a child who probably went through the same just to be judged by her teacher..

how about a doctor who has misdiagnosed a patient or has prescribed the wrong medication that causes the patient to die..would it be so wrong to wish that the doctor's family member also dies to make him understand a loss? to make him take that extra minute and step to ensure that he doesnt make a mistake..obviously that person could be anybody's dad, mom, sis, brother, uncle, granpa, friend, partner.....for some that person could even be the ONLY person they depend on..

they are subjective, true enough but the fundamental emotion here is the same...LOSS...no one understands loss until they experience it and at that time it could be too late. end of they day anything we do, it is only meaningful when we do it with someone we love.

dont take a back seat in relationship and tell yourself: if only that didnt happen, i would have done so many things differently..