i also dont think its an issue of being afraid of commitment.
more often than not, i find myself in situations where i can get along really well with some guys but the physical relationship is not so....
well, lets just say not an orgasmic explosion at the finish line. at other times, the communication is at so so level but the sex...can be at a totally different level. the touch, caressing the kissses....theres just a connection that transcends the barriers of communication...
no, im not rooting for poligamy...wait...hold that thought....poligamy....???
what is so wrong with poligamy if each individual in the relationship can commit themselves to the benefit of each other, offering different kind of expertise in the things that matter. health, fashion, career, monetary, emotional, physical...>> all aspects of life.
are we so closed to the idea of more than two person in the relationship that we are totally unaware the potential benefits that such relationship can offer. yes, even for straight couple poligamy is not legal and and frowned upon. all im saying, in homosexual relationship where we cant really build a family (at least in this country) would it be so impossible to even consider the idea of a few men being there for each other fulfilling each other's needs and call it a committed relationship?it is really not about guy A: SEX, guy B: MONEY, guy C: COOK...not not at all....its more like. guy A is really down, guy B is busy with work, guy C takes care of guy A and vice verse.
call me crazy but im open to the idea. different guys fulfilling the different needs on an individual..
i believe i am capable of giving equal attention, care and love so whats the issue really?and im not really talking about 'varieties' in bed. or maybe i am....most gay men engage in threesome or more anyways in the name of open relationship. how much weirder could it get if one has threesome and call it a committed relationship?
dont get me wrong, im not against good ol fashioned relationship, its just that i just havent found the complete package. the one person who can challenge me mentally, emotionally and physically..maybe challenge is not the right word...match perhaps...
in that instance, i dont think it would be so wrong to opt for a package deal? a little bit of this, a little bit of that..tolerating each other's differences..
on the issue of faithfulness..
three is a crowd, yes we have all heard that before...in a weird way, i think it would be easier to be faithful since there is always an extra pair of eyes to 'monitor' so to speak...of course faithfulness is something that begins from within..not something that comes from a watchdog.
just a thought.
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