I find men to be attractive and not ashamed of it..

I find men to be attractive and not ashamed of it..

Wednesday, December 22, 2010

The Ugly Truth

i am entirely happy with the way i am. 

whoever claims to that would be a complete liar. living without regrets on the other hand is entirely a different story. 

which would be a bigger sin? being in denial or unaware of living in denial?

what are u talking about dude?

>>i can almost hear it. 

long time ago, when i was a lot thinner, a lot less muscular, had mustache (yes, i did) and were not living in kl, i used to tell myself: 

there isnt anything about me that i would change. 

it was all part of living a positive live. who was i kidding. apparently it was a denial. why?

because everytime i look at my surroundings there was something that i want to adapt to. to make it my belonging (im not talking about my best friend's boyfriend ok!). for an instance, i envied the university football players because i think it would have felt awesome to be a part of a winning team for the university. and being sweaty in footballer's body would have felt awesome!!

at that time my entire world revolved around the campus and my closely knit friends. it was ok to not be muscular, attractive with unkept hair. under that circustance, i wouldnt have changed a thing. my group of friends consisted of 5-7 people at any time. probably there were lesser people to compare to. so, better chances at being happy....err more satisfied with what we what i had.

now, in the working environment, more attractive and good looking people have better voice and recognition, it is envitable for one to look presentable>>a fancy word for good looking. the bigger the city is, the more obvious it gets.

it is probably true that if one looks good, one can almost get away with anything..dont believe me?? believe it.

good looking people are more confident>>a fancy word for more demanding and stand better chances at interviews. 

and...sex......oooh mama! wider range and market for cuter, more muscular group..been there done that.....

isnt that an ugly truth? 

>>not really!

yes there are people who are naturally gifted with good looks....

what the hell it means??

>>ill explain.

what i think is a positive body image can be categorized as below. this is not a stereotype. just divide them to realistic categories and it is not entirely impossible.

1. Skin: clean, clear skin. face, body and elsewhere. forget the tone, clean, odourless skin is a turn on. 

2. Body type: obviously most of us are not born muscular..so train! go to the gym. if thats too much to ask for, anyone with legs could run. so do it. ever seen how the legs of sprinters look? fuc*ing hot!! it is more about a healthy body image and being overweight and clumsy is not a healthy one. then take it one step higher. 

3. Speech: talking proper language. not butchered malay or broken english. pick a language where ideas can be presented and stick to it. dont do the manglish or tanglish of chinglish.....that reflects poor education...at least i think so.

4. Clothes: branded, designer clothes?? save it for sexdates. they are not necessary for daily usage. good fit and colour that matches the skin tone can do wonders. if you have chicken legs, please stay away from skinny jeans because thats just disgusting. if u have huge chunky legs (with definition) do wear them coz thats shlurrppyy!

so what is a bigger sin? saying one is not gifted in the looks department or not doing anything about it??





dont let others have the upper hand. own the upper hand! 

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